Trying to Conceive Stories

mescolotton: Natalie & Andrew's TTC Story

2008-07-18T15:59:00Z

"Andrew has it all planned, from the baby's name to what kind of exciting job 'he' will have when 'he' grows up..."

Andrew and I have been together for a little over four years. Although we had several mutual friends in law school, we didn't really get to know each other until the summer after our first year. On our first date, Andrew made me a delicious dinner and followed it up with miniature golf and a roller coaster ride! It wasn't long before we realized that we had something that was going to last a lifetime. Two years later, we made it through law school, passed the bar exam, and Andrew proposed. It was at that point that I knew I was the luckiest girl in the world! I was going to marry my best friend, my rock.

We got married in October 2007 and a few months later I got the baby bug. It took a little while longer to convince Andrew, but now he's on board "full throttle." We decided we would start TTC in July. Well... we couldn't wait that long! We started TTC in June, on our business trip to Taipei, Taiwan.

We often spend hours dreaming about our future as parents. Andrew has it all planned, from the baby's name to what kind of exciting job "he" will have when "he" grows up. I find it adorable that Andrew won't let me share our baby names with anyone else.

The worst part about TTC is the waiting game. I know it's only been two months, but I'm an impatient girl! Andrew, on the other hand, thinks the worst part about TTC is the incessant beeping of my thermometer in the mornings.

All in all, we can't wait until the day we hold our baby in our arms for the first time and know that all of our dreams have come true.

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jbwife: Jeannie & James' TTC Story

2008-07-11T14:59:00Z

"I was not prepared for the roller coaster ride we got on when we decided to try for our own little baby..."

James and I have been together for eight years, meeting just after high school graduation through friends. Though we were young, we fell in love instantly. After about a month of dating, one of our friends looked at us and told us he knew we were going to get married. We had to laugh because the way he said it was just to matter-of-fact, but at that moment I knew he was right. Six years later on August 19, 2006, we were married.

Just after our one year anniversary, we began talking about starting our family. Our first conversation was a result of finding out our close friends were pregnant. Even though I was extremely happy for them, I felt slightly disappointed that it wasn't us. It was also so strange to feel that way because I hadn't really thought about us having kids yet. That night we had the discussion that would change our lives. We started trying to conceive in November of 2007.

I was not prepared for the roller coaster ride we got on when we decided to try for our own little baby. It seems like around every twist of hope, there is a turn of disappointment. Some months are easier than others, but I have to admit that it breaks a little piece of my heart each month when I have to tell James that it just didn't happen for us. Despite all of the hurt, anger, and disappointment I've felt, I still have to be thankful. God has blessed our marriage in so many ways and He's been with us through this whole process. When I'm feeling the hurt, He comforts me. When I'm angry, He fills my heart with peace. When I'm disappointed, He makes me hopeful. I've learned learned through this journey that more than anything in this world I want to be a mother and I believe with all of my heart that we will be blessed with a little baby of our own. I'm so excited for the day I see those two beautiful pink lines and know our dream has come true.

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mnbride1013: Alicea & Chris' TTC Story

2008-07-03T16:00:00Z

"Whether we conceive or adopt, we will have children. We just have to keep focusing on the light at the end of the tunnel..."

Chris and I have been together for over three years. We met online in December of 2004. We had exhausted all other dating avenues and went online as a last resort. Coincidentally, we both landed on the same site at the same time! We were married on October 13, 2007 and decided we wanted to start a family right away after being married.

When I first met Chris he was on the fence about having children, but I have known from a very young age that I wanted to be a mommy. I first started taking care of children at the tender age of 10 years old, assisting at a home daycare across the street from my parents' house. It was there that I learned to change diapers, feed infants, and generally care for children.

My love of children continued, and I babysat almost every weekend and many weeknights for families in my neighborhood. I'd even get referred to other families outside of my neighborhood. Eventually, at 16, I started working for a daycare center. I continued to work there for four years, until I graduated from college and moved on to the corporate business world.

Since those days of sitting for my neighbor's kids and taking care of the many daycare kids I watched grow up over the years, I have longed to have children of my own. Chris finally got on board with wanting children not long after we got engaged, and he's excited to become a daddy.

We have been trying for eight months with no luck, but if we find out after a full year of trying that we are not able, we will start the adoption process. Whether we conceive or adopt, we will have children. We just have to keep focusing on the light at the end of the tunnel.

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LittleBlue1224: Elisa & Steven's TTC Story

2008-06-19T17:24:00Z

"We have all the hope in the world that we will, one day, be blessed with a healthy and beautiful little baby..."

Steven and I met almost five years ago on jdate.com (yes, we're an internet dating success story) and our three-year wedding anniversary is this October. It wasn't love at first sight for me, but if Steven tells the story, he'll say he knew right away. Boy, am I happy he was persistent! He is probably the most kind-hearted, warm, caring, funny, and genuine person I've ever had the great pleasure to be around. I honestly don't know what I'd do without him. Laughing and living with him every day is an absolute joy.

We got our BFP last summer, but tragically at seven weeks and one day, we discovered we had lost our baby. Naturally, we were both devastated and felt like nothing would ever be right again. After the hurt and pain began to subside, we knew we were ready to TTC again, and finally on our journey to becoming parents. I know Steven is going to make the most amazing father and I look forward ever day to making our dreams come true.

The best part about TTC is... well, you know! No, in all seriousness, the best part is knowing that once the TTC part is accomplished, we'll be one step closer to becoming parents. And that's something both of us have wanted for a very long time. We talk about names, traditions, family heritage, culture, etc. There's so much to look forward to and we have so much love to give! Hands down, the worst part about TTC is the stress and the waiting. Also up there on the list would have to be constantly being asked, "So, how's the baby-making coming along?" People mean well, but come on!

While we've been through so much already, we truly know our journey is just beginning. There is so much to look forward to and we have all the hope in the world that we will, one day, be blessed with a healthy and beautiful little baby... and if all goes well, several of them!

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AlwaysMrs.S: Cari & Brian's TTC Story

2008-06-19T15:56:00Z

"I know Brian will be an amazing dad; I can just picture him holding our little one..."

A chance meeting

Brian and I met about four years ago on a blind date. I had planned to attend a friend's going away party and invited a guy my sister was trying to set me up with. The blind date and I did not hit it off, but the friend he brought along kept my attention all night. That friend was Brian.

Our life together has been just as unique as our meeting was. I am the voice of reason, more realistic and more emotional, while Brian is the carefree one who still makes me laugh, even when it seems impossible.

Dreaming about baby...

We just recently made the decision to TTC and it's all new and exciting for us. We talk all the time about the little blue-eyed kid we will have; whose personality traits it will carry (whether it will be shy like I was growing up, or mischievous like Brian was). We dream about whether it will be a boy or girl, and have already picked out names for both. I know Brian will be an amazing dad; I can just picture him holding our little one as if he might break it, pecking soft little kisses on the baby's forehead until both fall asleep.

We lay in bed and get lost in those thoughts, talking for hours about it. We reminisce about things we did growing up and how we would handle them with our child -- like the time Brian was three and played in the fireplace until he was covered in soot from head to toe. He got a bath and was put in clean clothes... only to go do it again!

We know TTC won't be easy for us, but we are ready for the challenge and know it will be one more thing that continues to make our story unique... starting from the first time we laid eyes on each other.

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Nancy&Mark: Our TTC Journey

2008-06-12T16:00:00Z

"We understand that life will change as we know it, and look forward to a new life together as a family..."

We have been together for seven years and married for six months now. We met through Instant Messenger on A.O.L. I instant messaged Mark because he was online at the same time I was and he was the only male of legal age that had the same interest as me -- hockey! We chatted for about an hour and then I had to go. A few days later, I received an email from Mark congratulating me on my hockey game win. Then we decided to meet each other formally at one of my hockey games... and the rest is history.

Before we got married, we would often discuss having children. We both knew that we wanted to have them and understood that we would try soon after we were married. We have just begun the process of TTC and are taking our time with it. It would be wonderful if it happened right away, but we understand that it could take some time and will accept the right time deemed by God.

We are both excited and nervous about becoming parents. The excitement stems from knowing that we have created a life and the nervousness stems from the challenge of developing that life into its own person with the love and guidance that only parents can provide. We can only hope and pray that God will give us the strength and guidance to mold this life into a successful one. We understand that life will change as we know it, and look forward to a new life together as a family.

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Britt71884: Britt & Kevin's TTC Story

2008-06-05T15:00:00Z

"Some days are better than others, but I wouldn't be able to make it through without the love of my life..."

A perfect match

Kevin and I met almost five years ago and it truly was love at first sight. We met the day after Halloween by mutual friends and dated exclusively from the beginning. I knew almost immediately that he was "the One." When Kevin went home for Thanksgiving, he told his mom and dad that there was something special about what we had, and he was right!

After two-and-a-half years of dating, Kevin asked me to be his wife and of course I said yes! We had the most wonderful wedding I could have ever dreamed of. We bought a house a year later and settled down into our lives.

The baby journey

We always knew that we wanted children, but it was never the right time. A year after we bought our house, we both decided that it would be a good time to start trying for a family. We tried and tried and tried...! Finally, after five months, on April 2nd, we got our BFP! We were overjoyed. We told family and close friends and waited with nervous excitement for our first doctor appointment. Unfortunately, we didn't make it that far and lost the baby at six weeks and four days. To say the least, we were devastated. But I firmly believe that we are not given any more than we can handle and that we will one day (hopefully soon!) have a beautiful baby to love. So we continue the quest that is TTC! Some days are better than others, but I wouldn't be able to make it through without the love of my life!

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MandyE-worth: Mandy & Matt's TTC Story

2008-05-29T16:00:00Z

"It seems like everything we've ever worked for has lead to this major decision..."

High school sweethearts

I have been with my husband for almost eight years and married to him only eight months. As former high school sweethearts, it is hard to remember back to a time when Matt wasn't sweeping me off my feet. We had our first date on Valentine's Day and ended up getting into a car accident before we made it to our reservation. I got whiplash, and I guess you could say that I've never been able to look away. Since then, we don't celebrate Valentine's Day, we celebrate our Wreck-iversary!

Next stop: baby!

It seems like Matt and I have done almost everything together: graduation, prom, the wedding; and to cap it off, we now want a baby so badly. It seems like everything we've ever worked for has lead to this major decision. We have just started looking for our first house, which means hundreds of homes to walk through. It makes my heart flutter that ever time we look through a different house, Matt immediately goes to the backyard to see if it is big enough for him to build a swing set and still have room to teach his future sons or daughters to play baseball.

Wanting a baby is the strangest of desires. We have never felt so ready for something in our entire lives, while at the same time so naive. There is so much to learn and we have been preparing by reading all the books and charting. When you first feel that initial urge to have a baby, every month that goes by makes you that much more eager to get the plus sign, two pink lines, digital "pregnant" readout, or whatever other way a test can deliver that wonderful news. some couples say that calculating the right times to try and make your baby takes the fun and excitement out of the process, but to us, this is the most romantic thing we've ever done.

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