Q: Budgeting for baby?

Posted Sunday, September 09, 2007 11:08 AM


$30K -- just for the first year of baby?! Maybe.

Will you actually spend that amount? Hopefully not. But the baby bucks can add up quickly, especially when you factor in things like lost wages and child care -- not to mention the optional luxuries, like a doula or night nurse. Of course, some of you living in large urban areas may wind up spending even more than this huge chunk of change, while others across the country may get away with spending much less. The out-of-pocket expense can vary dramatically based on the cost of living in your area, your health insurance plan, the amount of gear received as gifts, whether or not your MIL is up for babysitting, and so on.

Check out the figures below -- we worked with financial experts to get a handle on the basics. Let this be your inspiration to write down some numbers of your own and do a bit of math with your better half. Happy baby making!

SUPPLIES: $6,500

Nursing + Formula: $1,000-$2,500
For the first six months your baby will only drink milk. If you are using formula, the typical baby will drink an average of $35 worth of formula a week. That adds up to about $1,820 over one year. After you introduce food, around the six-month mark, you will need to add an average of $2-$3 per day to that, given that a jar of baby food costs about $.75 -- adding up to an additional $1,092.
Ways to save: Breastfeed as long as you can. Buy formula and baby food in bulk.

Nursery Setup: $2,000
There are several must-haves. For a crib with a mattress, you’ll spend anywhere between $160 and $750, depending on what style and brand you go with. You’ll also need the following:
Bedding set ($35-$270)
Crib blankets and sheets ($8-$20 each)
Mattress cover ($10-$20).
Beyond the crib, a changing table will cost somewhere between $70 and $600, then add $40 for a changing pad and cover. A dresser ranges between $90 and $650; and finally, you’ll spend $90-$500 on a rocking chair.
Ways to save: Do your nursery furniture research and prioritize. You may want to spend more on the rocking chair to use for future generations, and less on the crib and dresser.

Baby Gear: $1,500
Invest in a good stroller ($30-$300). Find a high-quality stroller if you do a lot of walking. Other items for outside the nursery:
Car seat ($35-$280)
Playpen or portable crib ($60-$180)
Baby carrier or sling ($20- $140)
For at home, you may want a swing ($45-$130); a play center ($50-$125); and a bouncer seat ($30-$90). And you’ll definitely need a monitor (about $80); a high chair ($45-$240); a diaper bag (about $35); and a baby gate ($35-$250).
Ways to save: Buy double-duty gear. Some strollers convert to high chairs for an easy switch at the restaurant; and many diaper bags can take you from newborn to toddler in function and style.

Diapers + Supplies: $1,000
Newborn babies use an average of 75 diapers per week and up to 320 diapers per month. At about $.25 per diaper, that adds up over the year. Tack on two boxes of wipes per month ($3 each), and baby soap, lotion, powder, oil, and diaper rash ointment (about $14 month) and you have an additional $240 per year. Cloth diapers will save you money, if you plan to do the laundering, however using a diaper service costs about the same as disposable diapers.
Ways to save: Buy diapers in bulk and online. You can save between 5% and 10% through large orders and online deals.

Clothes: $1,000

On top of maternity wear for those nine months, invest in staple items for baby. You’ll need:
Sleepers ($5 each)
Hats ($3 each)
Booties and socks ($2-3each)
Gowns ($6 each)
Outfits for warm and cold temps (about $15)
Coats ($25 each)
Shirts and pants ($7 each)
Considering you’ll go from 0-2 months to 3-6 months, 7-9 months, and so on, you’ll need several sets in every size.
Ways to save: Buy outfits in multiples. If you see something cute on sale, get it in two or three sizes to save money down the line.

OTHER (OPTIONAL) EXPENSES: $24,200

Maternity leave: $8,400
Depending on your salary and work policy, you’ll end up with lost wages after taking 12 weeks maternity leave. The typical policy will pay between 60% and 70% of your gross income for the first six weeks. With an average 50K salary and a policy that doles out 60% of wages for the first six weeks and no wages for the second 6 weeks, you’ll end up with $8,400 in lost wages after 12 weeks. Below is a quick breakdown of lost wages on a 50K salary.
First six weeks: $2,400
Second six weeks: $6,000
Total: $8,400
Tip: Whether or not you’ll receive salary while on leave, map out your expected income and expenses for during this time to make sure you can make ends meet.

Child care: $9,000
Childcare is a biggie, considering that costs range from $5,000-$24,000 per year, depending on the city and childcare center. Enrollment at a daycare center costs an average of $12,000 per year. For a full-time nanny in a city like New York, you’ll easily pay between $22-$32K.
Tip: Decide whether going back to work or staying at home is the best decision for you money-wise. Also consider whether your employer will allow you to work from home; or your parents will take care of the baby while you’re at work.

Family plan: $4,800
It costs an average of $400 per month to add a dependent onto the average health insurance plan. Before you commit to a plan, sit down and compare your health plans to find out which one is the most comprehensive and cost-effective.

Support Services: $500-$2,500
(Lactation consultant, doula, night nurse, birthing coach)
Decide whether you’ll need an extra hand for the first couple weeks. Coaching and a helping hand before and after baby arrives will allow for more relaxed parents and a happy baby.

Life Insurance: $500
Run the numbers using one of many online worksheets to find out how much life insurance you really need to buy. You’ll have to estimate the number of years you want to support, and any other big-ticket items (mortgage, college) you want to cover. For a 30-year-old seeking a 20-year-term, $500,000 life insurance policy, you’ll pay about $30 a month. For a 40-year-old, the monthly premium falls between $31-$40 per month; and between $83 and $92 for a 50-year-old.

Legal Fees and Will Preparation: $1000-$4,000
Between updating your will -- to name a guardian for your child and outline financials in the case of your passing -- and updating your 401K or retirement account, you’ll incur some legal fees. A simple will costs about $400, and a more customized document can cost between $1,000 and $3,500.

GRAND TOTAL: $30,700


OTHER EXPENDITURES TO CONSIDER
Pre- and post-natal healthcare and hospital stay (if uninsured): $8,000
New car to accommodate baby gear: $10,000-$40,000
Renovations to set up baby space: $1,000-$5,000

Sources: Christine Zuchora-Walske, co-author, Getting Organized for Your Baby, American Pregnancy Association, SureBaby.com, National Association of Diaper Services, Finance.Yahoo.com


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re: Q: Budgeting For Baby?

That's a lot of money!

Posted by Knot Heather    Friday, August 10, 2007 10:52 AM


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Wow, if that were actually true, we'd be on the streets by now!  Good thing it's not.  :p

Posted by K.B. Squared    Friday, August 10, 2007 7:45 PM


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... or should I say... doesn't HAVE to be.

Posted by K.B. Squared    Friday, August 10, 2007 7:48 PM


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I know a lot of people who do it on a lot less than 30K a year!

Posted by Taracall10    Tuesday, August 14, 2007 10:58 AM


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I think that this baby budget is ridiculous! If my husband and I had to spend this on a baby we would be homeless, and so would many people I know. It would be helpful to have a baby budget that was a little more reality based. Counting in things like Once upon a child, other resale stores, coupons, places like kmart, ect!

Posted by xXEgerBunnyXx    Friday, August 17, 2007 9:38 AM


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That is absurd.  Buying things second hand (either from 2nd hand stores, or garage sales) and hand me downs from family members can cut down on costs considerably.  The vast majority of people do not need a doula, night nurse, birthing coach, or $4k legal consultation.  Those are luxuries to be purchased IF one has the money.  Many of my co-workers use family members for child care (although understandably, this is not an option for everyone).  Nice job with your "budget" that assumes a baby costs more than many people make in a year.

Posted by DR&RN04    Saturday, August 18, 2007 5:09 PM


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OMG this freaked me out at first since we're TTC.  Thanks to the previous posts I'm a little more at ease.  I mean goodnight...30k is a TON of money for a tiny person.  It is good to know how quickly things can add up like diapers and supplies.  Thanks for the previous posts...I was about to reconsider! LOL

Posted by ashleyua82    Tuesday, August 21, 2007 11:44 AM


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This is a little unrealistic... and a good way to scare people off from having children.  

Posted by Christina112    Tuesday, August 21, 2007 12:29 PM


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Reading about their budget made my want to give up right now. Thanks to every one for sharing and making me feel better!

Posted by Jessi&Jason    Wednesday, August 22, 2007 12:52 PM


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its very unrealistic. unless you're loaded, who's going to spend $500 on a rocking chair, $600 on a changing table and $650 on a dresser? for pete's sake! and $35 a week for formula is a little high, my niece whom i see every single day as i'm her babysitter goes through probably a can of formula a week and that costs $15. You KNOW they're going off these insane numbers and going by people by the best of the best of everything (i.e. the $600 BABY dresser. seriously.) as for lost wages, i doubt many of these people make $50k a year so $8000 in wages in a little much too. good think i babysit my nephews and niece for my job so i dont have to take maternity leave when Gabby comes in February! or pay for daycare :)

Posted by MrsAECook    Thursday, August 23, 2007 8:51 PM


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Thank God for the posts....I read this w/ some skepticism, but was still scared.  But I have to agree w/ the other posts....this is really unrealistic.  Both my sisters managed to do it for under this amt, and my husband & I should be able to do so too.

Posted by irishdem2    Saturday, August 25, 2007 9:40 PM


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I certainly didn't think we spent that much on our first child, but when I look at it, the numbers do add up! I was most shocked by the lost wages and the additional health insurance expense, I don't think most people calculate those factors into budgeting for baby. I was lucky that my mother in law took care of my daughter and my friend gave me hand me downs like strollers and a bassinet! I think the point is -- make sure you do budget -- whatever that budget is, chances are you are going to need to save so you don't go into debt that first year!

Posted by Knot Carley    Wednesday, August 29, 2007 11:38 AM


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This is outrageous, children can or cannot be so expensive. The parents make this choice by how well they handle their budgeting and finances. Children do incur costs and lots of them, but leave it to them to scare people off. This is so not true when you just want to raise a happy healthy family on a good budget with a decent income it is completely possible and let me tell you, you shouldn't need a swing, bouncer and floor pak to play on and if you do want all of them ask for them at the shower or hit the sale stores and garage sells.

Posted by jgriffin    Friday, September 14, 2007 2:05 PM


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Well we cover my stepdaughter already so there is noa dditional monthly health insurance OR deductibles even. In fact medically if we stay in network a baby wont cost us a penny more. Actually EVEN if she wasn't on our plan it would only cost 15 bucks more a mo to upgrade from spouse/employee to "family" and the deductible woudlnt' increase it's based on two, not three or four.

Most women have baby showers- esp those with high income friends'. Strollers and diaper genies etc. should at least partially be taken care of.

I am already a sahsm so we've adjusted to living on a single income and there wont be daycare expenses. And yes we may have to get a bigger car for travel to family, but it doesn't have to be BRAND NEW 10-40K Lmao. My small suv is about worth 5K now if I put 2K more into it I can get a bigger one.

And we just drew up a will, who ever spends 1000 to draw up a will better be damn rich and have a complex situation.

This is a crazy budget.

Posted by Praying4Twins    Saturday, September 15, 2007 10:42 AM


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Yeah well how about if you also add in the cost of INFERTILITY...GOOD LUCK WITH THAT.  We easy spent close to 25 grand before we made our decision to adopt.  The adoption is 30 grand alone.  The cost of our baby will be A LOT more than 30,000.  But if we didn't deal with IF and now adoption we could easily have spent less than 30,000 for the first year.  That’s a little bit steep but I think everyone needs to be aware that having a baby isn't cheap and if you think it is...think again.  

Posted by lrrb    Tuesday, September 18, 2007 10:10 AM


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I admit we did not create a budget at all before having our baby -- probably not the best idea, so I'm glad to see all of you are having the foresight to plan things out really well ahead of time!  I find that the hugest chunk of change we spend is on child care. We are not fortunate enough to have family nearby enough to do it, and we both work full time. It is very expensive! Next would be formula and diapers, for sure.  As your baby grows and goes into bigger size diapers, the packages get more and more expensive. I didn't know this! We try to buy in bulk at Target or online, which helps. I collect coupons as much as I can, too. I find that baby clothing and toiletry supplies are fairly inexpensive and you get a lot of that as gifts, anyway. Sharing things with friends is also key to saving some money, since you only use much of the gear for such a  short period of time.

Posted by Nest Lori    Monday, September 24, 2007 3:58 PM


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has anyone heard of thrift shops and hand me downs? how about homemade baby food?

Posted by LorieA    Monday, October 08, 2007 12:56 PM


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Hand me downs are great... also, keep anything you do get if you or any of your family are planning on another little one down the road- That in itself will save tons! Spending so much on the first child doesn't seem so ridiculous when you spread it out over two or three children.

Also, stock up on diapers, formula, etc.. whenever you see it on sale- Diapers especially never expire- and if your little one grows out of them before you use a box, they can be a great shower gift for a friend who's expecting! BUY BOXES, not bags! A box has essentially 2 "bags" inside of it, for about $20 bucks, when a large package costs 15... you save $10 a box- not to mention gas costs because you're not going to the store twice a week to buy diapers! And the coupons Huggies or Pampers send you- they are your friends- look for "double coupon" days at your local store and use to your advantage!

Formula- use powder- much cheaper, especially the larger cans at the wholesale stores, you don't have to worry about warming it up (just add warm water!), you can put it in the bottle, take it on the go, and add water when you get wherever- less weight (and you'll be grateful to carry less on you with a baby on your hip)

Baby food- invest in a food grinder (hand ones cost like, $4, but those things are sturdy- they'll last through all your kids!) Or, bust out that food processor that's been sitting under the counter gathering dust. Make up a bunch of whatever, freeze it in an ice cube tray, and put a couple of cubes in a ziplock baggie- voila, frozen dinners. Too, just grind up a bit of what you're having for dinner that night- it'll help baby get used to the idea that this is what we ALL eat for dinner, rather than baby always gets a special meal.  Do buy jars for going out to eat though- it really is just more convienient.

I was a single mom with my first baby and probably spent between 2 and 3 thousand- it is doable!

Posted by Tonya_G    Friday, December 07, 2007 10:21 PM


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I found this article really helpful. Even before reading the comments I realized they were talking about the high end value which I can see being the case if you buy everything new and live in a bigger city where things are more expensive.

What I found helpful was the breakdown of the different areas. I had not thought about the maternity pay being less than 100%, so I am now going to check with my employers policy on that. Also I would have overestimated on the diapers and supplies sections had I been doing this budget with no other information.

I'm just in the thinking about having a baby stage and was looking for some estimates on the doctors fee's involved (listed here as $8K if uninshured) so I found what I was looking for too!

Posted by donthugapalmtree    Wednesday, January 02, 2008 4:50 PM


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Personally,I think a lot of it is what part of the country you live in, and if you are one of those parents who thinks their child has to have "everything" for their child and their nursery.My sister-in-law and I had babies close together and she thinks she has to have EVERYTHING she sees and spends a lot of money on things she barely uses.A lot of it, she got rid of before her baby turned two months old so, she could get MORE stuff. Me, I bought a few new things but, most of what I got  was given to me, kept from my first two babies,or bought from resale shops and garage sales. My husband and I sat down and added expenses and it is cheaper for me to stay home with our three kids, [also breastfeeding the baby]rather than work  and pay a babysitter or daycare.so, I will try to get a job when the baby is a little older.Also, when my mother-in-law found out about my last pregnancy, she kept saying we can't afford another child and started sending newspapers from the west coast where she lives to "Prove" she was right.The news paper articles said  one parent supporting their child has to make at least one hundred thousand a year, per a child. I laughed  when I read that.She still thinks she's right.Ridiculous.

Posted by charlene29    Saturday, June 14, 2008 12:31 AM


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First off, I think a $300 crib is outrageous and a $40 changing table pad...Has anyone heard of Wal-Mart or K-Mart? Who lives like that? A majority of the U.S. Population lives pay check to pay check, maybe we should write these articles instead of having someone say this is exactly what it will cost you. Besides, with a baby shower and a good support group and family a majority of my costs were slashed by 60 %.

Posted by amb97    Sunday, June 22, 2008 11:32 AM


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Now this budget is kind of high and I am wondering if there is one made up for us ladies who live in Canada?

Posted by Laura090807    Sunday, July 06, 2008 11:39 PM


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I'm so glad my husband is in the military. Most of the "optional" expenses will never be an issue since they pay for the baby's birth, health insurance, life insurance for all of us, plus our cost to draw up new wills. We'll alos defitnitely shop around at consignment shops and use the things our parents kept of ours (blankets, toys--like the puppy you pulled on the string, what child still doesn't love that?).

Posted by McCoffee    Saturday, July 19, 2008 2:22 PM


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